Look at it like this!

I'm writing easy..Guess you'd have to take it easy. Don't leave those irrelevant nasty comments. Relevant-nasty should be fine :) Chuck all of that...just have fun!

Friday, April 23, 2010

The Time-Off

I don't particularly remember who said it or where I heard it, but I have very often heard about doing what you love for a living...or making your hobby into your job. Immediately what hits me on hearing this is, "what is it that I love to do?". Though, there are funnier questions that I've heard in training sessions sitting with other MBAs, in reaction to this profound statement. Those would be:

1. "Really, ma'am, it's easier said than done." True. One's hobby could be to go golfing when s/he can, but there're only a few who manage to get more money out of it than they put in.
2. Some other people candidly admit, "I have no hobby...as such".
3. And then there are those innocent newbies who say "My hobby is to sleep, have beer and sleep more..he he". This goes down well with the other participants, they laugh the matter off and get back to work again.

I've heard there are people who make a living out of rowing a boat in Scotland and they do what they love to. Sounds beautiful to have a job in a rowing club.

For me, it is a difficult proposition. I don't struggle so much with "what" do I love to do than I do with "what among all I love to do" is really so special that I give it priority over other nice things and take a shot at making a career out of it. I often sit down and think of an answer, reading? no...basketball?....noway, haven't been on the court for years...poetry...may be? Now that being sorted out, the answer almost always collides with the next question -Do I do it well enough to make some money out of it?

Obviously, being the modest writer I am, I think the answer is no (My computer screen, the notepad, the power cable and the walls are all screaming "of course, it's a no!"). And, so my life goes on, being a consultant that I am...going to work every morning, cranking out powerpoint slides all through the day...and ending up spending most of the weekends working on some random "proposal".

But, guess what, I feel excitement surging within me from (say) April when I'm applying for a week-long vacation in June. And, it continues right till I'm standing on June (recently, I've been hearing a lot on how people visualize certain commonplace sequences such as numbers, months, days-of-a-week etc. BTW, that's a subject for another good post!). I love April because I'm planning. I love May, because I'm re-hashing that plan(!). And, June because, wherever I could escape to finally, it was a good time spent away from work (I have gone a little overboard with this. It's not completely away from work but about as close as a prey is from a Tiger. I being the prey have a good chance that I might escape work if I make the right moves, right when I see it coming.)

So, I enjoy the time away from work. I often crib on being over-worked and busy through weekends, saying "I need to relax...have a good time". The idea of a good time for me may be sleeping, watching cartoons, reading a book, dining in my favorite place, going out with friends, blogging or generally gossiping with a (preferably female ;-) ) friend/ family. The idea of a good time for others could be anything, more often, something like the point number 3 listed in the beginning...sleep, drink and sleep.

What I have come to realize is that you enjoy the time off...the time away from work and routine chores. More I think about it, closer I come to the realization that had it not been for "work", I really wouldn't like my "time-off" so very much! Taking that argument farther, if I were to write poetry at work, I would want to take a break and go away (once in a while) from the poetry-writing. If I were playing "basket-ball" for a living, I would want to spend a few weeks locked up in a room and watch cartoons all day long. The fundamental idea of relaxation it seems is to "do something that you've not been doing everyday/ all-the-time".

And, on that note friends, it seems it's good to keep your boring/tiring/tedious/hideous jobs intact, and do what you do when you take time off. That way you continue loving what you love to do, at least.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Don't you feel that exaggerated air-conditioning is becoming a rampant problem especially in the corporate circles? For God's sake, 16 degrees! It's blasphemous.
What, according to you, should be a comfortable temperature set on your air-conditioner?

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Dinkar


हो जिसे धर्म से प्रेम कभी, वह कुत्सित कर्म करेगा क्या?

बर्बर कराल, दंष्ट्री बन कर, मारेगा और मरेगा क्या?


पर हाय मनुज के भाग्य, अभी तक भी, खोटे के खोटे हैं,

हम बड़े बहुत बाहर लेकिन, भीतर छोटे के छोटे है।

~रामधारी सिंह 'दिनकर'

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Prepare Delhi Now

It's not only about the Mumbai rains or BMC...it about the lack of general preparedness as a nation to combat potential natural disasters. Follow this link where the rains are, for a change, flooding the Delhi airport!



So, how are we changing our thought process on planning out our future cities? Infrastructure is not only about building fly-overs and mono-rails, right? Is all the infra planning integrated? Do we have task-forces to actively research, prove feasiblity of projects and get faster clearance from Environment ministry, Urban development authorities, railways and I don't know what not...that comes in the way of integrated planning and a smooth execution.

Catch this show on Discovery..or NatGeo, probably.. Mega structures...the one on a chinese mega suspension bridge (Xihoumen, I guess). The project was scheduled to be completed in Oct 2009. The bridge was ready and open for traffic in Dec 2007 in four years flat! You can't help but compare it to our Bandra-Worli Sea Link done up in a little over 10 years...

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Moment of Truth

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

New Levels of Oblivion

One step and another,
This aimless journey uphill,
'Keep going', they say, 'keep going',
And, look where have I reached!

New levels of oblivion,
There is magic in the breeze,
The ultimate levitation,
And, look where have I reached!

A world of blissful indifference,
So hollow there is no space,
Voices turned to mere noises,
Both time and purpose have ceased.

Friday, July 3, 2009

Mera Bharat Mahaan

This is a real incidence. Though you'd find it mundane, ordinary and definitely not shocking, I still emphasize its real because otherwise the issue behind these significant yet mundane things is dismissed with everyday humor.

Last night, a white SUV drove-in straight (via the pavement) to the porch of a well-known south-mumbai movie multiplex. I was waiting there for the rain to allow me to hail a cab. My husband was on phone alongside me. Two white-kurta-pyjamas-clad politicians with visible security men walked out from the SUV that stopped inches away from the glass-door entrance. The first thing one of them did was to spit 'pan' or whatever he was chewing right in front of the spic-n-span entrance, in front of us. And in full public view, he also threw his cigarette butt carelessly around. "...Talk about civic sense..", I thought to myself and looked away. But, my husband who is a li'l more sensitive about these things couldn't help being sarcastic and that too aloud, "Mera bharat mahaan" he said in an even tone.

The guy turned around, posed for a while, like Mahatma Gandhi often did with an index finger pointed out at you, except for the fact that he was looking more threatening and angry. "MERA BHARAT MAHAAN?..." he asked, "DON'T try and act smart with me...". I just stared at the guy and his audacity(the politician's, of course). But, my husband went ahead and asked him why is that cigarette butt thrown there and that dirty pan-residue spit right out the door. Suddenly, the security men came forward. The man from this country's leadership fraternity kept reinforcing.."do not try to be smart with me..". I stood like a rock beside my guy [by all means I was not moving much less giving any signs that I was alive ;)]. The man goes "Pitwa dalunga.." in full view of the entire junta that can hear all this and go home and sleep peacefully.

Needless to say, the kind politician spared me and my unapologetic husband. Subsequently, I swore and abused the politician within the closed doors of the cab.

This morning a lot of questions popped-up in my mind...no great answers though, I have an idea...like we have those basic etiquette classes for management trainees, we should have some classes for politicians as well. For example:

>>Civic Sense - More and more educational institutes have started culturing kids on not littering etc to internalize these things. When they grow up & realize that they are the only fools who practice it..they will associate civic sense, rights and duties with the 'aam-admi syndrome'. Wouldn't that be destructive in the long run?

>>CRM as in (customer relationship management) - Who are the end customers of the governance in a country? Citizens, no? Then, when would we be treated with a little more respect like how a typical firm treats its customers? Or much less, may be. Are customers segmented clearly in politics? Why are most of these customers not heard or treated better? Is it a culture issue? Is this phenomenon pervasive?

Anyway, so that was that. Oh and I forgot, the movie was just alright.